BM = biological mother or birth mom
DH = dear husband, darling husband, d**k head
(if it's a bad day)
SS(age) = step son (age of child)
SD(age) = step daughter (age of child)
GM = grandmother go to full list


Welcome to the Steps for Stepmothers Posting Board. These community guidelines are intended to keep Steps for Stepmothers a welcome, supportive, and safe environment for all members; a place to vent as well as to ask for and receive advice and understanding. We are confident we can accomplish this if everyone follows these simple rules of conduct.

When responding to a message from another stepmother, please be respectful and compassionate. Remember, that many stepmothers are sensitive and vulnerable as a result of the difficulties they face, and can be easily hurt if messages are judgmental.
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